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Social Skills Intervention

Are you concerned about their child’s social emotional development and ability to play and interact with other children? You know that your child has wonderful qualities but their social skills are poor. Children become frustrated because they desperately want to have friends and don’t know how to establish and maintain relationships with peers. Simple exposure to social situations is not enough for some children to learn these skills; they need to be explicitly taught.

Typical concerns related to social skills development include difficulty in reciprocity, initiating and maintaining interactions, maintaining eye gaze, sharing joy, empathy and reading social cues of others. This makes it difficult to develop and maintain meaningful and fulfilling personal relationships. This is a lack of ability not a lack of social interest.

This program addresses the needs of children ages 3 through 16 who need one-to-one or small group support. Services may be provided at home, in the community, at the Step by Step EDU-Play Center or any combination of locations depending on the focus of the intervention. Services are offered year-round, in 6 month cycles.

Groups are 1.5 hour sessions.

Step By Step EDU-Play Program process:

Step 1. Phone referral and intake
Step 2. Assess and identify needs in relation to social skills and social emotional development in collaboration with the family and upon recommendations provided from all current reports and/or any other interventionists working with the child
Step 3. Develop intervention strategies and an intervention plan
Step 4. Implementation of intervention
Step 5. Assess and modify intervention as necessary
Step 6. Transition to a less intensive service or exit service

Services focus on development of the child’s skills in engaging with others and accepting others in reciprocal interactions and “Play”:

  • Initiating appropriate interactions with others
  • Self Regulation
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Two way Communication
  • Self esteem
  • Development of advanced play skill
  • Transition to settings where one-to-one support is reduced and the child is successful in all settings.
  • Parents must participate and are encouraged to learn and practice techniques and tools to help their child in successful interactions.
  • Parent involvement may be met via coaching, video review, view on the monitor and review with the facilitator, parent meetings and conferences.

Tools and strategies may include peer mentors, activities on reading social cues (thoughts and feelings), facilitating reciprocal interactions, use of social stories, Role play or rehearsal, video or tape recording, art, music and drama. An assessment of communication skills is necessary to determine the use of multi-modal communication tools such as Picture Exchange Communication, visual schedules, and sign language or augmentative communication (computers and switches); Sensory strategies for self-regulation are also used to assist with anxiety and organizational skills.

Communication Skills
Conversation Skills

Maintaining appropriate physical distance from others
Listening position
Tone of voice
Greetings
How and when to interrupt
Staying on topic
Maintaining a conversation
Taking turns talking
Starting a conversation
Joining a conversation
Ending a conversation
Asking a question when you don’t understand
Saying “I Don’t Know”
Introducing yourself
Getting to know someone new
Introducing topics of interest to others
Giving background information about what you are saying
Shifting topics
Don’t talk too long
Sensitive topics
Complementing others
Use your H.E.A.D.
(happy voice, eye contact, alternating turns, distance)
T.G.I.F.
(timing, greeting, initial question, follow up questions)

 

 

 

Cooperative Play Skills
Asking someone to play
Joining others in play
Compromising
Sharing
Taking turns
Playing a game
Dealing with losing
Dealing with winning
Ending a play activity

 

Emotion Management Skills
Self Regulation
Recognizing feelings
“Feeling thermometer”
Keeping calm
Problem solving
Talking to others when upset
Understanding anger
Dealing with making a mistake
Trying when work is hard
Trying something new

Friendship Management
Informal versus formal behavior
Respecting personal boundaries
Facts versus opinions
Sharing a friend
Getting attention in a positive way
Don’t be the “rule Police”
Offering help to
When to tell on someone
Modesty
Asking someone to a play date
Appropriate touch
Dealing with peer pressure
Dealing with rumors
Calling a friend on a telephone
Answering the telephone

 

 

 

Empathy
Showing understanding of other’s feelings:

  • Preschool-Elementary

Showing understanding of other’s feelings:

  • Preadolescence-Adulthood
  • Cheering up a friend

Conflict Management
Asserting yourself
Accepting “no” for an answer
Dealing with teasing: K-4th grade
Dealing with teasing: 5th grade and up
More words to deal with teasing
Dealing with being left out
Having a respectful attitude